“Can you believe all of these people have no idea you’re wearing a cage under your suit?” my wife whispered into my ear. It was the first week of October, and we decided I’d try wearing the cage every day for as long as I could. It wasn’t Locktober’s fault that we had a wedding on the first weekend of the month, but rules are rules, so here I was on the dance floor with a Kink3D cock cage under my pants and no one was the wiser.
It was sexy!
Sir controls my orgasms all year round, which means she decides when and if I come regardless if I’m wearing the chastity cage. Frankly, I’m a good boy who would never dream of playing with myself or having an orgasm without her permission, so the cock cage is just a “bonus,” a sexy, secretive reminder that my dick belongs to her (and honestly, if you can’t stop touching your dick at your partner’s request without physically being prevented from doing so I think you have a lot to work on before you hand anyone a set of keys).
I love wearing the cock cage. Its snug pressure is a little reminder of her ownership that makes me feel very submissive. Having my dick physically locked away while I go down on Sir is a very humble and submissive experience – my own pleasure literally does not matter. I am here to focus on her, whether that’s providing oral at length or being fucked in the ass for her enjoyment. If I’m lucky to have an orgasm while wearing the cage, it’s an intense experience. Getting to the point of climax is a lot like rising a tide of my own, which leaves lots of room for teasing and vibrating. If she decides to unlock me to use my dick for herself, I feel like a toy plucked from the shelf and put to good use.
On an unsexy note, finding a cock cage that is comfortable to wear for an extended period of time has been difficult. I have a hydrocele in my scrotum, which means I have some extra fluid in my sack that makes my balls larger than normal. The doctors don’t think it’s large enough to be worth fixing, so it’s something I’ve just learned to live with. At this stage I have purchased almost every single base ring that Kink3D offers and have topped out at their largest size (which I’m testing out as I type! It’s certainly the most comfortable yet).
Luckily, Locktober is a mindset. I know Sir will control my orgasms and my pleasure regardless if the device is on or off, so if I have to take it off for a few days to let a small blister heal, it’s no big deal, even if I’d like to wear for as long she wants. Health before kinky-sexy fun, of course.
Locktober is a good excuse to bust out the cage, but other times I wear the cage a day or so before we know we’re going to have sexy times to build that good sexual anticipation. I also usually wear the cage every day she’s on a business trip and I’m home alone, sending morning cage check photos (after making sure none of her coworkers are standing around). It’s a fun way to be sexily connected when we’re not physically together.
Getting to wear it while we were at the wedding this month was a fun pleasure though. We enjoyed having a kinky little secret only we knew about. I was pleased at how often I forgot I was even wearing it, except for when she occasionally gave the cage a quick stealthy check-squeeze. The wedding was definitely the highest profile event I’ve worn a cage for and we enjoyed it a lot.
The month of October is rapidly coming to a close, and although I couldn’t wear the cage for as long as I wanted throughout the month, I’m looking forward to rolling into No Nut November and seeing what sexy fun games we come up with together. Then of course there’s Dick Destroy December…Peguary…Febroleplayuary…you get the idea. Never pass up a prompt as an excuse to have a fun sexy time.
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